“Oh, Grandmother, you do not understand.” Selling Memories: Poems and Tales for my Grandchildren When They Grow Up dispellsthat belief. Author Gitik provides poems and tales that touch every facet of life. Every tale and poem provide a special pathos that will touch the hearts and souls of many grandchildren who may think their grandmothers do not understand their many experiences with life. This is a work that many grandmothers can share with their grandchildren “when they grow up.”